SQMojo-you didnt talk about what was the problem? BUT have decided to move because it's your house causing problems?
Really?
As an outsider let me just say this----and please don't be upset, because as I said I'm just someone who reads your blog daily and I'm not gettin this part.
People can move a thousand times over and think that's "starting anew" but if your foundation is still unstable (no communicating, whatever lead you to be so angry to throw something, the silence for days....) moving will never solve anything except location.
I only know this because my "honey" was one of those people that said "lets move, lets start over" but the REAL issues we were having were never solved. They just went to new state, new house, new location with us. BAGGAGE. Until you deal with it and get it out there-I just can't imagine how things will be good for you.
I wish you lots of luck..and Im glad at least you started communicating. Body language...heh.
thank you kimmyk for your concern, but as you so cleverly observed, i've never really stated our problems . . . a new house will be, at least, distracting . . .
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SQMojo-you didnt talk about what was the problem? BUT have decided to move because it's your house causing problems?
Really?
As an outsider let me just say this----and please don't be upset, because as I said I'm just someone who reads your blog daily and I'm not gettin this part.
People can move a thousand times over and think that's "starting anew" but if your foundation is still unstable (no communicating, whatever lead you to be so angry to throw something, the silence for days....) moving will never solve anything except location.
I only know this because my "honey" was one of those people that said "lets move, lets start over" but the REAL issues we were having were never solved. They just went to new state, new house, new location with us. BAGGAGE. Until you deal with it and get it out there-I just can't imagine how things will be good for you.
I wish you lots of luck..and Im glad at least you started communicating. Body language...heh.
thank you kimmyk for your concern, but as you so cleverly observed, i've never really stated our problems . . . a new house will be, at least, distracting . . .
SQ
besides--it's haunted.
Can I have your old place..
Just looking for a new house or will this involve a new city, perhaps a new state?
I've been perusing your blog, clicked off fred's world. first of all, i'd like to hear the story about the man who got glued to the toilet seat.
second, why are you so secretive about everything? afraid you'll get "dooced"?
just wondering. you sound interesting, eccentric, odd, funny, sad, melancholy, passionate, the list goes on.
And one more ?. Why can't we see archives past september? they just dont' come up.
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